THE MAIN SOURCE OF YOUR HURT AND SUFFERING

Every time I search for the source of pain I always arrive at possession.

In my work, I happen to interact or get to listen to people who are going through pain.

The pain is mostly from relationships. Relationships involve another, it could be a person or a thing.

You delude yourself into believing that you can retain your control on your possessions, especially your objects of your pleasure and other people.

You forget a few important things, just a few and simple. That is, you own nothing and everything is transiency.

The awareness of the Truth of Transitoriness is one of the few great steps in wisdom and happy life,

for when it is fully grasped, and its lesson has sunk deeply into the heart, the clinging to perishable things which is the cause of all sorrow,

will be surrendered.

You always search for gain, possessions, and control. Why, why do you want to carry everything that will perish in time on your shoulders?

The words "MY", "I AM THE OWNER OF...", "MINE" etc... All these words bring nothing but sorrow to many who utter them.

TIP: PAIN AND SUFFERING QUICKLY disappear when you LET GO.

James Allen said, "There is no grief that would not be dispersed if the desire to have and to hold things which in their very nature cannot endure were taken out of the heart."

A boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, and wife is not something you own. STOP GOING AROUND SAYING MY...

As I mentioned in my previous article that anything that has a heart and can think independently cannot be owned.

People can decide to leave you or die. 

Anything you think you own, properties, cars, money, new flashy gadgets, or whatever worldly possession you deluded to own will perish or you will. That's the truth.

All these relationships and material gains should be enjoyed and used when rightly deployed. Nothing more. Detach your heart and self from these and you are free.

Your material gains or worldly really resources are entrusted to you to be used right. Choose to employ them to the best of your ability for the good of men and for the world.

You will be lifted off your sorrow when that which is entrusted to you is deployed for the best good of men, not for your own pride.

LET GO, or you will face continuous anxiety, pain, and suffering.

He whose treasure is his goals, self-development, self-love, divine guidance and knowledge, and truth seeker, and more importantly who fashions his life in accordance with Wisdom, will find the Joy which does not pass away.

He will rejoice.